second date on valentine’s day? Flower on a second date?
went out on a really “just-friends” first date last saturday, and with valentine’s day coming up i’m debating whether i should ask her out again for saturday or sunday (valentine’s day)
and either way, should i get her a flower or something?
i’m in high school
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buy flowers and candy and if she thinks its creepy play it off as its V-day
Bringing flowers for any date is always good. After the second date, send some to her work if you really like her. I was always sending flowers to my second wife when we were dating. It gets her attention at work (which she’ll LOVE), and let’s her know you care about her.
A date’s a date. I’m assuming that when you say “just-friends” you mean it wasn’t serious because it was only the first date you’ve been on together.
I don’t know about asking her on a second date that falls on Valentine’s day. That’s up to you. I would say, try to see her sometime before then. See how that date goes, and while you’re together, suggest doing something on Valentine’s day. If she bites, go for it. If she hesitates, forget it.
As for the flowers, a girl always appreciates flowers. Any gesture that can make you look sweet or thoughtful is a good thing, especially this early in the dating process. Also, considering what day it is, you probably shouldn’t show up empty-handed. Just in case.
If you’re worried about scaring her off by seeming too serious, or if you don’t want to make her think you’re more into her than you are, then maybe go with something simple.
A single flower (Please, no roses. Those are so overdone and cliche) will do the trick. It’s thoughtful and marks the occasion, but it doesn’t seem as if you went overboard. Maybe a single gerbera daisy, or two, tied with a pretty ribbon.
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